Bringing a New Cat Home
From LoveToKnow Cats
Cats can be just like children when it’s time to add the second pet to the family -- if not done properly, jealousy, resentment, and plain old hostility will take place.
Siblings
When my sister was born, I can remember my mother always saying to me, “Someday your sister will be your best friend in the whole world. She is all you have, so I suggest you be friends now and learn to live and love together.” At five, I didn’t know how true that advice was going to be. My sister today is not only my best friend, but she is my confidant and great defender. I can’t imagine life without her. And to think when she was born, I tried to push her into the pool, because I didn’t want to be anything other than first born and top cat!
Much the same goes for our pets. When introducing a new pet, be it a cat or dog, there are two outcomes. Either they won’t get along or they will form a friendship and have a built-in playmate. It’s always important to make your first cat know that he or she is very loved and that the new addition will be a good thing and not a bad thing. Here are some tips for making a happy homecoming and friendship for your growing family.
Bring a Blanket
Once you have picked out your new cat or kitten, it is wise to bring a small blanket to play with your new cat at the breeders or the rescue center. This way, you bring the blanket home for your cat to get used to the smell of the new kitten coming home. Cats are creatures of smell, so make sure that the baby blanket has your first cat’s smell on it too. The point here is for each cat to get used to each other’s smell. Rub this on the cats face cheeks and body -- make it a game.
Limit the New Cat's Space
When you bring your new cat home, it is important to confine him to one particular room for the first few days. This will allow him to adapt to his new surroundings, get used to his/her bedding, and learn how to use his litter box. Also, for a few minutes each day, you can introduce your first cat to your new addition.
Introduce the Cats to Each Other
Once your new cat has adjusted to his new home, your next step is to bring him out in his plastic carrier into the main room of your house. Let your new cat wander around without the fear of being attacked by the first cat. After about an hour, you can slowly introduce kitty #1 to kitty #2. They will show curiosity towards each other which is perfectly normal, so let them smell each other and get to know one another. If you see any aggressive behavior, you will have to step in, separate and start all over again. If there is no aggressive behavior, keep a close eye and hopefully the bonding process will begin and they will slowly become the best of friends.
Feeding Time!
In the beginning, at feeding time, I suggest feeding them apart until you know that they are safe and comfortable with each other. I also suggest talking with your vet about your new kitty to make this a smooth and easy transition for the whole family.
Best Friends
Be positive and be very patient. This could take some time, but at the end of the day (if done correctly), kitty one and kitty two will become the best of friends and have a playmate for life, just like my sister and I.
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Comments
Well I have 2 cats which are from the same liter. They are 3.5 yrs old. Lately they have been fighting like they dont know each other. Bruising each other and we had to separate them. I am now looking to find one of the cats a home. It is really scary bc they fight like the other is a stray cats. It's 2 girls and I really dont know what to do. I have 1 in the guest room and let the other one roam around. Help Please! If you have any suggestions.
-- Contributed by: WebHi Sharon,
Most of the time, the cats will eventually adjust to one another's presence. However, there are occasions where a cat is so territorial that he will continue to attack the other cat. I would give it a month or two and then you may need to consider finding the new cat another home for her own safety. If you follow all the steps outlined in this article, however, I think he will eventually accept her.
-- Contributed by: LoriSoardAre there some cats who will never accept another cat into their territory? I've tried keeping the new young female cat in a separate part of the house, but my older neutered male cat lurks at the door and once or twice has sneaked in, tracked her down and attacked her viciously.
-- Contributed by: Sharon
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