Cat Fights
From LoveToKnow Cats
Cat fights can be disturbing, but they're not all as serious as they would seem. Learn the difference.
Cat Fights: Real or Play?
Cats indulge in specific behaviors that the uninitiated might believe is a true a 'cat fight' but it isn't. These behaviors are 'play cat fights' and 'dominance displays'.
So, how can you tell the difference between a real fight and one of these other behaviors? Read on.
Play Fights
All kittens play fight, and there's nothing quite as cute as a tiny kitten 'stalking' a sibling through the tall grass of the living room carpet, for all the world as if he were hunting prey on the veldt. At some point, he pounces, and the two become a rolling ball of fiercely fighting fuzz.
Few people confuse kitten play with a cat fight, but what some new cat owners might not realize is that cats will play fight all their lives, if they have another cat to fight with. They don't have to be litter mates, just friends. Even cats separated by ten years and ten pounds will often indulge in a wrestling match, and while an older, bigger cat could probably pulverize his younger 'opponent' if he wanted to, it is seldom that anyone gets hurt.
Cats 'play fighting' will stalk like kittens, make growling noises and sudden darts at the 'enemy', but they will rarely flatten their ears, and if they do, it's just because they've gotten so 'into' the game.
Play fighting is great for cats, especially indoor cats, who need all the exercise they can get.
Dominance Displays
Cats are always negotiating for position in the tribal hierarchy, and one way they do this is by challenging a cat of higher status. Yes, even your indulged indoor darlings have a pecking order and territories, even if the territory in question is under the guest room bed, or the upstairs.
Dominance displays may involve flashing paws, flattened ears and low growls, but they rarely become true cat fights. Your best course of action in these situations is to maintain your own neutrality, and let the parties work out their differences on their own. If you interfere by separating the disputing cats, someone's feelings are going to be hurt and you will have interrupted the entire negotiating process. Then the whole business will have to begin again, with one or both cats feeling a great loss of face.
All that said, there are times when you will want to interfere. Some alpha cats celebrate their victory by biting their opponent on the back, and these bites can become infected, requiring a vet visit, antibiotics and an Elizabethan collar. If you have a cat who is prone to biting other cats, keep a spray bottle of water handy to soak the miscreant in the act.
Fights with Strange Cats
While cats live longer, healthier lives if they are kept indoors, many people still feel their cats need to roam. Outdoor cats will often trespass on other cats' territories, resulting in battles that amongst indoor cats is usually handled with an arched back and a hiss. You often won't even know your cat has been in a fight unless he limps home with a bad bite or tattered ear. Have a vet see to any animal bites your outdoor cat may acquire.
If you see your cat in a fight with a strange cat, or two strange cats fighting, be careful trying to break them up. Separating fighting cats with your hands is a very bad idea. You could get bitten yourself, with all the attendant medical bills. Cat bites are almost always infectious to humans.
It is usually sufficient to clap your hands and yell to cause fighting cats to break off their fight, and the strange cat will usually flee. If they don't break it off, the strange cat might be rabid, in which case you certainly don't want to risk being bitten. If your hose is connected, try turning the water on the cats. Then make sure you have your own cat examined for puncture wounds.
If you have an indoor/outdoor or outdoor-only cat, please make sure it is current on all its shots.
Conclusion
Some cat fights are serious, while others are not. The key is understanding typical cat behavior and your own pet's personality in order to judge whether you need to step in or let the situation resolve itself.
Comments
Hi Kerri,
First of all, kudos to you for adopting both of those cats. It was a kind and generous thing to do.
Let me ask, have either of the cats been fixed yet? If they haven't, this is the first thing I would do to take the interaction down a notch. Less hormone production often results in less aggressive cats, although it's not a guaranteed fix for your problem. Since the male seems to be the main aggressor, I'd start with him to see if the neutering will help him leave your female alone. It will definitely guarantee that he doesn't get her pregnant if they are both still intact.
To some extent, you can try letting the cats work it out on their own as long as no one is being injured. If the squabbling is too much to put up with, you can always give them a squirt with a water bottled to break things up. You can also try keeping some catnip toys on hand and offering each cat a toy of his/her own to distract them from the tussling. Keep these toys reserved specifically for these occasions so that they will retain your pets' interest when the toys are brought out.
If your cats truly can't learn to get along, you may have to keep them separated in different areas of the house. Hopefully it won't come down to this.
I hope you find at least one of these suggestions helpful. Good luck!
-- Contributed by: KellyHello, Please help? I about 2 months ago adopted a male kitten (9 weeks old) and the last week took in a stray female we found wondering outside our house, which the vet believed to be about 3 months. We took a little while to introduce them holding them in separate rooms then switching rooms and such. Now that we have put them together the male constantly instigates with the female. She does not reciprocate the "play?" and actually usually growls, cries and sometimes hisses. Basing on his normal behavior it seems like he is just trying to play with her but if she does not respond is it still playing? and what should we do? Let it continue or intervene? Please Help
-- Contributed by: KerriHi Katrina,
You'll find a reply to your question at Ask the Cat Experts under "Trouble Adapting to an Adoption".
-- Contributed by: KellyThis page has been accessed 2,865 times. This page was last modified 20:12, 23 August 2007.
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