Possible Reasons Your Cat Is Suddenly Affectionate With You

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Any changes in cat behavior -- even those that are favorable -- can worry pet owners. If your typically temperamental cat is suddenly more affectionate than usual, they could be trying to tell you something. Find out what that is by keeping an eye out for other changes in their behavior or lifestyle.

Possible Reasons Behind Sudden Affection

An independent cat that suddenly crawls into your lap, rubs up against your leg, or begs for head scratches might alarm you. But, before you ask, "What have you done with my cat?" consider whether any of these circumstances could be to blame.

Change in Household Hierarchy

Just like in the animal kingdom, each household has a loose hierarchical structure. If another cat in your home recently passed or has developed health problems, this could cause a shift in the ranking. Perhaps that pet was the alpha, and your current cat was lower in social rank. Likewise, the addition of a new housemate could disrupt the hierarchy and bump your cat up in rank.

Feline head bunting, the act where a cat bumps their head against your hand, leg, or any other body part, is a behavior that cats exhibit to spread their pheromones. Typically, the dominant cat in the colony does this. So, if your cat has suddenly begun rubbing up against you, they may have earned the place as the highest in social rank.

Jealousy or Insecurity

Sudden affection could be an emotional response to a change in the household or environment. The addition of a new family member, such as a baby, new pet, or even partner, could instill jealousy in your cat, motivating them to strive to be the center of your attention.

The best way to address these competitive tendencies is to determine the root cause and create a positive experience surrounding it. Reward your cat with attention while you're holding the new baby, or have your partner offer their favorite treat. Make sure your cat always has a safe, comfortable space where they can spend time if they get anxious or overstimulated.

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Weight-Loss Diet

Within the United States, 59.5 percent of cats are overweight or obese. According to a recent feline weight-loss study, experts found that, "Affectionate behavior increased in most cats" involved, even after just four weeks of dieting. If you recently started your cat on a diet, this could be behind their increased affection.

Hormonal Fluctuations

If your female cat has not been spayed, their affection could be a sign of heat or pregnancy. This is a result of fluctuations in their reproductive hormones. Cats experience their first heat around 6 months of age and experience a heat cycle every three weeks for the duration of their heat season. Clinginess is one of the telltale signs of feline heat, in addition to vocalization, purring, rolling on their back, rubbing up against things, and spraying urine.

Pregnant cats may exhibit affection or clinginess early in their pregnancy, as well. Other signs to monitor for include swollen pink nipples, nausea, changes in appetite, or a growing abdomen. Even if it is early in the pregnancy, your veterinarian can likely palpate the kittens or use an ultrasound to visualize them.

Medical Illness

Unfortunately, physical illness can lead to increased affection. An ornery cat may feel compelled to sleep beside you or crawl into your lap if they're not feeling well. And even if there are no other outward signs of illness, that doesn't necessarily mean something isn't brewing. As a survival instinct, cats typically hide any signs of illness; therefore, they could be exhibiting subtle signs that you might miss.

It's beneficial to have a veterinarian rule out medical causes if you notice any changes in behavior. Blood work or X-rays can reveal hidden conditions. If everything checks out, you can enjoy peace of mind that your feline friend is healthy.

And They Called It Kitty Love

If a cat is laying on you suddenly and showing unusual affection, it doesn't always indicate a problem, but it is important to rule out any troubling cause. If you conclude that your feline is medically sound and emotionally happy, enjoy the extra love!

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